In today blog we will share five mistakes we make in our
relationships. Now before i begin let me just say really quick things you none
of get offended because that it’s my opinion. And another is that about these
things actually applied to all types relationships are not just romantic
relationship so can apply to your friendships your family types whatever. And
if you are single don't feel horrible reading this. Now let's start sharing
five mistakes that we make in our relationship.
1.Being a
leaning tower
This is most important thing in relationship. People are not
in your life to fulfill your every need. Well I feel like too many people rely
on other people for happiness encouragement and motivation. So if you’re upset
well I guess that means someone has to cheer you up. Of course sometimes it is
nice to rely on someone else I mean everyone is human, it is nice to rely on
some time but if you constantly need someone to make you feel good then you
really need to stop and ask yourself why can’t you make yourself .Everyone is
loving their own life, they have their own challenges their own stuff to deal
with it is unfair and unrealistic for you to expect other people to constantly
fulfill your needs.
2.Restrictions
If you need to place restriction on people in your life
something is wrong. For example if your girl and you need to tell your
boyfriend hey you can’t go the party because the certain girls be there and I
don’t rust that situation that should be a huge red flag. There is no way you
can justify that you have to place restriction on your love for them to remain
loyal to you. So you can place any amount of restriction on someone but if they
want to cheat on you they are going to cheat on you. The goal is not top place
restriction around the person so they don’t the goal Is to be with someone that
won’t.
3.Enjoy Other things too
So it this how many people here don’t see some of their
friends much because now they’re friends are in relationships. In my opinion
one of the biggest mistakes people makes is that when they’re in a
relationships they make their partner their entire world and forget about all
the other important people in your life with their friends and their family. Now
I understand that you’re so in love but can I just tell you that is very
unrealistic for you to expect to experience all the wonderful things in life
with just person in one type of relationship. It is still important that you
have your own life got to your own events have your own space and be your own
person.
4.Fake start
So when we go our first date we’re not completely ourselves
because we probably dress a little bit nicer than usual, little be more polite
and we don’t act completely crazy, so that expected that’s fine but you know
what you should not fake in the beginning of a relationship who you actually are.
I understand the need to impress someone in getting relationship but that
doesn’t mean you have to be someone else. I mean on your first date don’t act
like a super macho dude from the six day you’re in totally insecure I was not
prepared for that and girls don’t act like you no emotion that it’s so cold
heated on the third day you’re going to be
and emotional wreak. I mean in
the real world everyone has strengths and weaknesses, don’t try to be a people
pleasure and try to be someone you’re not, Know who you are be proud of it.
We all know people like this they will never ever admit they’re wrong .That’s why many relationships may get broke by just few silly misunderstanding. Really no one ever died of apologies, so don’t get shamed to offer sorry even if you are not at mistake. Don’t do anything silly and don’t let your ego win over your partner. If your partner really loves you he or she definitely realizes her mistake.
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Write commentsgreat thoughts
ReplyGood tips for young couple thanks
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